Congratulation to the people at clevercactus, there is now a public release of clevercactus share, described on the site as:
clevercactus share is a private and secure environment to share files with people you know.
clevercatcus takes something we all thought we understood, namely the internet, back to basics. Make it possible for pairs/groups of people to communicate directly with each other. No need for DNS, no need for FTP servers, no need for special handling of firewalls and the like. Just secure, ad-hoc, point-to-point connections between machines out on the edge.
the technology
Its Java based [UPDATE] using their own P2P framework, not JXTA, and they have gone to great lengths to provide a quality desktop look and feel. clevercactus has both desktop and web components. The desktop component installs itself nicely into your 'whatever it is called - bottom right on windows' bar. [UPDATE] It also updates itself, like JWS, but they've done it themselves...